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Welcome to mahendar.com: .....Journey into my heart... the big black heart. The heart which has been beating since........

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Good morning sunshine . you are quite operatic and romantic. your tenuous rays give me intense delight reminding me of my dream. The wonderful lady of my thoughts, the women of my imagination, she is the nature's wonder. just like you. gorgeous. in and out. An ideal sense of balance for an erratic and clashing personality like mine. I am genuinely and intensely in love with the woman of my dreams.. Well! You must be knowing me. I am an unusual man. Expressive as well as practical, with both the feet on ground, I swing amidst the extremities of my personality. An enormous bundle of contradictions, which reflect the spirit of my manners, my moods, my thoughts, feelings and views. Deeply emotional, I recluse and at the same time I can be a live wire. The very opposing qualities of mine must be confusing everybody and even you too. But I am open and blunt in expressing my ideas. I believe in hard work rather than fortune. As a massive believer in uphill struggle, I feel that tougher I work, the more luck favors me.

Well if you have decided for a traumatic experience what can I do........ kidding. To start with officially I am called "Mahendar Kumar Rathi" but my mom calls me Mandu, Papa, Raja, Raju, Lala, Laddu are some the 100's of pet names of her. Other family members call me mahendar, Friends call me "Mahen" and in profession I am better known as "Rathi". Right now I am in working in Hyderabad working as Senior Consultant on Industry's new buzz word ".NET".

Though my family roots originate from city of Atomic Bombs "Phokhran, Rajasthan" but I was born and bought up in Hyderabad,Andhra Pradesh. So its clear that I am a Pukka Hyderabadi and above that A Marwadi, a true "Baniya". So its natural that enterprenuership is in my blood.

Being a Capriconion, no wonder I ambitious and determined and loving to have a laissez-faire economy. I love to imbibe every second life offers, believing the heaps and tons of scrumptious opportunities it offers. I long for the innovative objects life have to endow upon me.Fair enough to say, my utmost compulsion is Net, the place where I first and foremost rely upon. The place I love and breathe for. I like to spend my days in the net exploring all the technological frontiers. This helps me escape the bottomless and bottom full feelings I have gathered all these elongated and forlorn years. I atone for not relating Net as my love. It gives me immense support and provides poise for my impulsive nature.

So Net is my sweetie too.It gave me TWO of the best people of my life, whom will though apart but will never go out of my thoughts. The dawn heightens my mood. Do you know sunshine, what I will do when I am in bliss? I step my feet into the Net. Hey, I have a BIG vision, which I badly want to convert into reality. Its to do business as a corporate bigwig. It just dont have to be I-T, I can start off from mud to rockets anything :). I always admired you sunshine, and dreamt to be your acquaintance. You are the power in me. You are the source for the work I do. Welcome me as your friend. Well! Do you want to know me? ... I am fond of little children and eating Junk. I wonder the nature and creativity. I love arts. Hey, but I am not a virtuoso. I listen to music. I have a passion for electonic gadgets, graphics, Internet, movies and cooking. I am bit wild so i like wild sports favourite is Ocean Kayak or Canoe (Def : A small fibre made boat with twin side rowing to sit only one person) which I do a lot in Pacific Ocean. Hey careful haan its risky. I like to take risks rather than playing safe. I like Indian villages and it's culture.I love seeing those cute girls looking at you for a chance to speak but with some unknown fear in them. I like to see my mailbox filled with messages. I like denim and dreams. often mixed together. Peel me a grape or watermelon or mango and I am thankful to you. Yes, I love to eat grapes,watermelon,mango. My mom, my sisters, my sister-in-laws, my nephews and my love are the top priority.

Yes..its me..Mahen... Picture at Singapore Zoo gardens with a chimpi called 'Maya', so cute na.. this is the best picture of mine b'coz I am not so photogenic you see.. :)
[ This is the best photograph of my life, but here who is more handsome thats a big ?????? ]

Basically, I am a vegetarian(100%). I disgust the loneliness (But I am alone now above photo predicts that). I don't smoke nor I like tequila. A true altruist who dislikes selfishness. I hate beaurocracy and favoritism. But God discarded me into it,I born in such a system what to do.

Emotional and down-to-earth yet a confirmed net addict longing to experience tons of wild opportunities life has to offer, this is me for you - A bundle of contradictions and craving for more! At heart I am a person who dangles every moment between the deepest introvertism and the outright extrovertism. No wonder, Libra shone out brightly the day I entered this world. And since then, I have been hanging between the scales, between the extremities. I have had my share of both ends in equal measure.

My friends tell me I am an utterly free and frank person, whether the ongoing topic is love, politics, the rising price of onion's or the falling costs of computers. Yes, my greatest addiction to date is the Commerce/Business and then followeed by Net , a place I love and live for. It helps me give vent to all those pent up emotions that I have bottled up deep inside me, over a period of long lonely years..... Oh yeah, I expected your next question. And the answer is in the positive - I am in love. Deeply, madly in love with the woman of my dreams. That's another dream I am sure to convert into reality. Emotional, Introverted, and friendly, In fact, she provides the perfect balance for my unpredictable nature. I plan to get married in the next coming millennium (next I repeat). Whether it will be with my babe remains to be seen. Wish me all the best, man! Anyway, if not this sweetheart, another will do just as well. There are lots of pretty girls in India. Apart from this special soul mate, I primarily rely on technology to provide me with the love and heart-to-heart communication I require to keep me going smoothly. I love and deeply respect my close friends and Family. They form the core support structure of my life. On par with this is my love for my country, my India.

You can call me a feminist (may be I am). I adore women and their beauty. One who is good at heart, frank and open. One who cares and respect. One who can trust and can keep up the faith. I look at her heart and mind than her face when I make friendship with women. After all beauty is not gonna to stay with her long. I think this sincerety with women fetched me two of my best female friends in my life one both found on web (www). And one whom have decided to share her whole life with me. Me too.

It is these emotions that make up my psychological makeup. Sentiments that reflect my being and my mission on this planet.

Job

After acquiring laurels with my Bachelors degree in Computer Science, Initially joined as small time programmer at start up software company . Working subsequently for one year, I understood that the place doesn't suit me. Nepotism is not my way after all. So I quit the job. Finding myself back in unsure career I joined Netware Maintenance Group, Hyderabad, this company was not that big but yes, I had my foundation deeper her. Not only at software arena I learnt a lot in hardware too. I served NMG for 2 years But wanting to make rapid strides one fine day again I felt "No Mahen!!, you are not being explored more. You need someone you to sharpen you up". I am a WORKHOLIC, I need pressure, I need target. I think my problem is I just cannot sit of a desk as routine software engineer to write write 1000's lines of junk codes. And this landed me in Singapore, here I joined worlds leading interactive company Ogilvy & Mather Worldwide Inc (O&M) {In their interactive wing Cybersoft/Ogilvy Interactive} In true terms this gave me what I was looking for. Working e-commerce and webdevelopment with some of the prestigious projects today I feel I could say yes this work was done by me. My Resume will more elobrate on this if you are interested in knowing what I exaclty did professionally. Apart from this I am also launcing my website on my community (Maheshwari, better know as marwadi's) which is almost done. its called www.maheshwarisamaj.com. Its one of its kind for in our community all over India and I feel proud for that.

Hyderabad

My final words are for Hyderabad : My terra firma, my heaven on earth, the city of my wildest imagination and my realest reality. The place for the best of IT, chai (that's the local for tea, a very special tea mind you!), Pottiyan (babes yaar), tank-bund, rickshaws, those grass-green RTC buses and its foot boarding travel, biryani, panwallahs and the wanderers, loafers and common public.

At the end let me thank to three of the best person's of my life whose efforts changed my ideology and thought me one should also live his own life not just running after materialistic things and career. They do are priority but, one has to also look within himself sometimes. And the result of all that is what you are seeing now. My site, which makes me to think of myself sometimes.

First is my elder sister Premlatha Sarda , its all because of her what I am today then comes Murthy R N (Rallabandi Narshima Murthy) with whose help I first landed overseas which spelled sucess and opportunities. and last but not the least is Vidyashree who showed me what is tenderness, love, care. Yes! these names will ever go off only with my last breath.

Well reading such a long you might by now understood me well, how complex creature am I. I wish someday someone would come whom could say yes I understand Mahendar Kumar Rathi "completely".

I thank the nature for giving me an understandable and loving friend like YOU. Thank you once again for spending your precious moments with me. As the dusk is ascending, I take leave now.

Good night Sunshine

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